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10 Ways to Live in the Moment

It’s all too easy to rush through life. It’s all too easy to become busy and stressed and rushed. This means we often miss out on what’s right in front of us.

But not anymore. Because today, we’re sharing 10 simple ways for you to make the most of your time and live in the moment! Check them out below:

1. Make a list of what you’re thankful for.
2. Tell your family you love them.
3. Listen to your favorite song.
4. Go for a walk with your spouse.
5. Read a book.
6. Find a quiet place to pray.
7. Play in the yard with your kids.
8. Take a deep breath.
9. Watch the stars come out.
10. Spend more time doing what you love.

What are some other ways to live in the moment? Share your ideas in a comment below!

2 Ways to Be a Great Leader

We all want to lead well.

We all want to make a difference, encourage the people around us, and be the best leader we can be. So today, Coach Dungy is sharing two of his keys to being an effective leader! Check it out below:

1. Be Approachable. First and foremost, it’s so important that you’re approachable as a leader. People won’t trust someone they don’t like. So be friendly, be authentic, and be sincere. Only then will your leadership be effective.
2. Be Available. And second, make sure you’re available to talk with people. It doesn’t matter how friendly and caring you are if you’re never there! So make time to check in with the people you’re leading. Ask them how they’re doing, how you can encourage them, and how you can better lead them.

What are some other key characteristics of a strong leader? We’d love to hear your ideas. Just comment below!

Honoring God with Your Actions

How does your spouse know you love them? Probably from the way you call them throughout the day and remind them. Or the way you encourage them when times get tough. Or the way you have stood by them all these years, choosing to put them before yourself.

This means that your spouse knows you love them through your actions.

In the same way, our love for the Lord is often displayed through our actions. When we are obedient and patient and kind, we are demonstrating the importance of our relationship with God. But when we are selfish and rude and quick to become angry, we are missing out on an opportunity to show God we love Him.

John 14:15 says, “If you love Me, you will keep My commandments.” In other words, God wants our actions to echo our love for Him. So be encouraged and choose to make choices that honor God!

Why Two Are Better Than One

Everyone craves community. Everyone wants to have friends they can count on when times get rough. Even God agrees! In Ecclesiastes 4:9, we’re told that “Two are better than one.”

So today, we’re gonna look at some reasons why two are better than one!

• When you’re part of a team, you develop deeper relationships with people
• When you’re part of a team, you don’t feel alone
• When you’re part of a team, you have a better sense of purpose
• When you’re part of a team, you learn to stay humble and kind
• When you’re part of a team, you can dream and collaborate together
• When you’re part of a team, your wins are bigger and your losses are easier to handle
• When you’re part of a team, you achieve more

What are some other examples of how two are better than one? Share your reasons for wanting to be part of a team in a comment below!

The Best Time to Make a Difference

When we talk about making a difference, we’re usually referring to the future. One day I’ll go downtown and serve the homeless. One day I’ll invite my friend to church. One day I’ll write an encouraging note to my spouse.

But what if we replaced one day with today?

Instead of getting caught up in the distractions of our lives, it’s time to take a step back and remind ourselves what life is all about: loving God and loving others.

Psalm 118:24 says, “This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.” God wants us to make the most of the time we have on earth…and that begins with making the most of the time we have today. Because the best time to make a difference is now.

So what are you waiting for? Go and make a difference in someone’s life today!

Worldly vs. Eternal Significance

Let’s face it: Most of us are stuck feeling like our lives are insignificant. Without fame or fortune or status, we feel like there’s no way we can make a difference…let alone change the world!

But in Psalm 139:14, we learn that we are “fearfully and wonderfully made” by God. This means that we DO have significance!

While you may not ever experience worldly success or significance, God has created you to have an eternal significance by giving you the ability to impact the lives of those around you. He’s given you a mouth to encourage, hands to serve, and a heart to show compassion to family, friends, and even strangers you pass on the street.

So stop focusing on your worldly significance and start embracing your eternal significance today!

How to Avoid an Attitude of Bitterness

Let’s admit it: we all enjoy venting about our frustrations. We enjoy voicing our opinions and the ways people get on our nerves. And it makes sense that we get most frustrated with the people who we spend the most time with–our spouse and our kids.

And we think it’s not a big deal to vent. We think it’s not a big deal to share with our buddies how our wife has been nagging us all week long about chores or how our kids have been bothering us when we’re trying to just relax and watch the game. We don’t usually give a second thought to complaining about these small frustrations.

But here’s the hard truth: the more we talk about what annoys us and angers us and aggravates us, the more it will annoy and anger and aggravate us. In other words, if we continue to talk about how frustrated we are with our families, the more bitter our attitude will become.

Ephesians 4:29 says, “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.” 

So the next time you feel ready to vent about your annoyances, we want to encourage you to think twice. Ask yourself if your words are “good for building up” or if they’re simply contributing to an attitude of bitterness.

Always in the Spotlight

The day you become a parent is the day you step into the spotlight. And you never step out.

From the moment your child is born, they are watching you. And they see all of your moments of kindness. They see the way you give your spouse an encouraging word after a long day. They see the way you put away your cell phone at the dinner table. They even see the way you smile at the cashier and ask how their day is going.

But they also see your moments of weakness. They see the way you slam your fist on the table out of frustration. They see the way you roll your eyes behind your spouse’s back. They see the empty bleachers at their soccer game. They even see a word or two slip out under your breath when you think no one’s listening.

Here’s the thing: your children are always watching you. Always. There are no days off and no behind the scenes. So be sure that you think about each word and action you take. Because once you’re in the spotlight, all eyes are on you.

A Note of Encouragement for Dads

No father is perfect.

Sure we all have moments of success. We have moments of kindness and selflessness and cheering on our children. But we also have plenty of moments of failure. We have moments of frustration and anger and selfishness and pride and distance.

In these moments, it’s easy for our opinion of ourselves to change. We begin to judge ourselves based on our actions–loving ourselves when we succeed as dads and frustrating ourselves when we fail as dads. But we need to stop putting so much emphasis on our failures as fathers, and begin to find our ultimate identity in Christ.

2 Corinthians 5:17 says, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation: the old has gone, the new has come!” In other words, God wants us to lean into who we are in Him–not who we are based on our mistakes. So be encouraged by this wonderful truth!

The Best Way to Teach a Boy to Be a Man

Every father wants his son to grow up to be a man.

Every father wants his son to know how to lead his peers well, how to love his wife well, and how to guide his children well. And every father wants his son to know who he is in Christ.

But not every father takes the time or makes the effort to teach his son these things.

The truth is that there is only so much our boys can learn from teachers and books and school. Because when it comes to character building, they need an example. They need a role model. They need someone to look up to. And dads, that’s where you come in. 

Proverbs 22:6 says, “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” As a father, God has given you the responsibility to train up your son. And when you are faithful to teach him these lessons through your words and actions, God will be faithful to guide your son.

So be intentional with your time this week and figure out how you can begin to or continue to raise up your son.